Five Tips to Cultivate Your Child’s Healthy Personality
Cultivating children should not only focus on the cultivation of intelligence and ignore the cultivation of non-intelligence factors.
Non-intellectual factors refer to behaviors, habits, character, morals, psychology, etc. that are not affected by intelligence.
According to observations by child care workers, whether a child has received good non-intelligent factor training before the age of 3 can directly affect the child’s intellectual development and the formation of a sound personality.
It is difficult to change the “bad pattern” formed before the age of three.
The family is known as the “factory that creates a healthy human personality.”
The child’s personality is healthy, and the development of the child’s body, and determines the future life of the child.
How to play the role of family education to ensure the healthy development of personality?
Parents should start training from the following aspects: 1. Cultivate children to develop good habits. Development psychology believes that mindset determines fate, details determine success or failure, and habits make the future.
Good habits are often formed as a child.
So let the children develop good habits from an early age, and form preliminary concepts of time and discipline.
Have babies and toddlers get up and eat on time. If the children do not cooperate, you can tell the children: Mom and Dad must go to work, they must not be late, and they must not accommodate their children.
Appropriate restraints can prevent children from developing a self-centered mentality.
2. Creating a harmonious family environment Parents’ upbringing, attitudes and methods have a great effect on the development of children’s healthy personality.
A harmonious family atmosphere helps children to have a positive and proactive attitude towards life, and they can consciously participate in family activities.
Parents care, care, and considerate for each other; parents are considerate, pay attention, and take care of their elders; parents have a moderate, loving, and loving affection for their children, which can form positive emotions such as self-esteem, self-confidence, kindness, and responsibility.
However, if living in a vibrant, discordant, and unhealthy family environment, such as disagreement between family members, often quarreling, children living in this environment lack security, distrust, and some may even be aggressiveBehavioral or violent tendencies.
Parents must have a healthy personality before they can influence their children.
In a modern society where the pace of life is constantly accelerating, parents must always work hard for life, work, and face lively, easy-to-know, and active children after returning home. At this time, please do not hesitate to do it anytime, anywhereChildren’s example, guide them with patience, do not treat them with rough and impatient, let the children show themselves in a free, loose, and equal family.
3. Protect self-esteem and enhance self-confidence. Although the child is small, he is also an independent individual with his own wishes and hobbies.
Parents must learn to perceive the child’s inner world, communicate with the child in a tone of consultation, guidance, and motivation, and think more from the perspective of the child, rather than impose their will on the child.
Don’t blame or insult because the child is small, especially don’t make fun of it and ridicule the child.
These are not conducive to the healthy growth of children’s personality.
Parents should give timely recognition and encouragement to their children’s progress, increase their self-confidence, and protect their self-esteem.
4, to cultivate the independence of children’s lives At this stage, most of the children are only children. Each child is a little sun at home. The conditions for eating, drinking and playing are the best in the family.
However, due to the over-protection of parents, they thought that the child could just concentrate on their studies, and everything else was arranged by the parents. As a result, the child “opened his mouth with food and stretched his hands with clothes” and had no ability to take care of himself at all.
Over time, children become overly dependent and grow up easily to cause personality disorders.
5. Pay attention to cultivating your child’s ability to communicate and love, which is very important for a person’s life. Now children have no siblings and are the center of the family.
Therefore, it is easy to develop waywardness, self-centeredness and other shortcomings. They are also not good at interacting with peers. Parents should bring their children to contact with other children and learn to interact with others.
A lively and cheerful character is beneficial to the child’s life. Children will encounter some setbacks in their studies and life. At this time, parents should not use accusations and language that are violated, but should guide them with an encouraging tone to keep them alive.Cheerful.